如果你刚好温柔 我刚好成熟 幸福就在转角

DevinDai

我是一位89年的积极上进的男生，白羊座

以前在国内一直自己创业，现在在这里读书。

真诚的寻找一位相处起来舒服的伴侣。相互理解，相互包容，共同成长，共同营造一个温馨的家。

个人最终是比较倾向回国发展。当然如果你非常想留在这里，也可以商量。加我微信：64225949791

附件是我的信：

给未来爱人的信：如果你刚好温柔 我刚好成熟 幸福就在转角

Devin / 文

别人说人生有三大幸运：求学时遇到好的老师，工作中遇到好的师父，成家时遇到好的伴侣。这么多年，一路走来，我发现好的老师和师父易得，好的伴侣却可遇不可求！于是，我每天都收拾好心情，带着微笑，时刻准备着亲爱的你能和我撞一个满怀！

我知道上天一定会眷顾一个真诚而善良的人，他正在为我准备一份大大的礼物，因为分量太重，所以来的时候稍微走得慢一些。也或许，我就想晚些遇见你，因为那时或许一切都刚刚好，你想嫁，我敢娶，虽晚但余生全是你！

亲爱的，也许你现在有一个男朋友。我希望你不要伤害他，因为我知道你一定是一个善良的人。我也希望他不要伤你太多，因为日后听到这些故事，我会心疼。我希望你拥有美好的感情，因为我不希望你的时光被辜负。但我知道你们一定会分手，因为我们才是彼此注定的那一对！

亲爱的，也许你现在也是一个人。我希望你不要对爱情失望，不愿也不敢拥有感情。虽然我知道我会让你再次鼓起勇气，但是这个过程会不会很辛苦。我已经在感情里吃了很多苦，希望遇到你的时候，我们彼此可以轻松一点。亲爱的，如果你依然对爱情充满憧憬和期待，那请你也跑的快一点，以便让我们早点相遇，因为我不想浪费一丁点儿彼此幸福的时光！

亲爱的，我一个人现在过得还不错，虽然偶尔觉得有些辛酸，但大部分情况下还是快乐的。很多人觉得，我的近十年不可思议，但只有我知道，没有你的见证，无论我做什么，那都成为不了传奇！也有很多人得知了我的故事，会说你身边一定有很多优秀女性朋友吧，怎么还没对象呢？只有我知道，我一直在静静用心等着你，不急不躁！我想，亲爱的你也是这样吧，没有因为年龄、世俗和其他的压力匆匆的嫁人，而是静静等待一份真爱，不慌不忙。

而所有的坚持与等待，都是为了在某个机缘下我们刚好相遇呀。我想那时，一定是与君相逢时，恰似故人归吧！我想那时，在微弱的月光下，我们一定会忍不住促膝长谈，讲述着彼此成长的故事吧。或许期间，你会偶尔带着委屈滴下几滴眼泪，请不要害怕，我一定会抱抱你，告诉你以后的日子，我一直都在！

亲爱的，我知道你就在不远处，正在朝我的方向走来。我们都在努力变成更好的自己，以便相遇时，我们一眼就能在人群中认出对方的样子。亲爱的，你知道吗？我还时常幻想着我们相爱的样子呢：

我期待我们是真心相爱的，因为和相爱的人在一起，仿佛心生力量，眼里有了光，笑里全是坦荡。而且，我知道我们的爱，不仅仅是顺境中的甜蜜，还有危难时肝胆相照的义气。人生一定不会只有欢笑，或许你仍然会有委屈，但是我会永远会陪在你身边，抱着你不会令你失望！

我期待我们是相互欣赏的，因为和相互欣赏的人在一起，你不是完美的，但是你没有缺点，你一直在努力也会变得更好。为了陪你走更远的路，我也时刻提醒自己，陪你休息，让生活充满理解包容和仪式感。他们说一辈子相处很难，应该需要极大的智慧和勇气吧，而我们从不逃避，一直都在相互鼓励！

我期待我们彼此是靠谱的，因为和靠谱的人在一起，你永远不用猜疑、担忧和忧郁，你可以活的很自在、轻松和自然。因为总有那么一个人，懂你的一颦一笑。无需言语，却总是凡事有交代，件件有着落，事事有回音。我们既是伴侣，也是知己。从此，相互便有了依赖！

我期待我们都是有爱心的，因为和善良的人在一起，我们不仅仅只关心自己，我们还在用心爱护着身边的亲人，关注着这个可爱的世界。那些需要我们的地方，我们应该去看看，给予一些温暖！

我期待我们都是理想主义和现实主义的综合体，因为理想主义，我们总会在繁杂和无赖中找到生活的乐趣和惊喜；因为现实主义，我们总是按时兑现曾经的理想，这些都将成为浪漫的回忆，写进书里或者日记里。

我期待我们都是热爱运动的，因为和热爱运动的人在一起，即便我们认清了生活的真实面目，我们依然热爱着生活。我们都要保持好的身体，以便能相互陪伴得更久。我们不指望能环游世界，但是我们总是尽可能在有生之年，让世界更多的角落留下我们的足迹。

……

亲爱的，遇到爱的人，就成了诗人，遇到了你，就成了为你写诗的人。亲爱的，余生不长，真的很想和你在一起；余生很长，我还是只想和你在一起。有人说，最好的相遇都是久别重逢，我一点都不遗憾没有在最好的时光遇到你，因为遇到你之后，最好的时光才刚刚开始。

虽然我早已做好长期作战的准备，但是我仍然期待您早点来到我身边，这样我就能用我这么多年沉淀的智慧和力量来呵护你！亲爱的，你在哪里？

亲爱的，如果你看到这封信里头说的，正是你，你刚好温柔，我刚好成熟，如果一切刚刚好，幸福就在转角

DevinDai

！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！

DevinDai

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DevinDai

顶！！！！！！！！

DevinDai

DevinDai

DevinDai 发表于 2019-1-6 16:39
你不是男人   我们是啊  我们可以帮你   哈哈哈

DevinDai

简爱 发表于 2019-1-5 22:26
没要求的人，听说才是要求最高的人。
楼主肯定是想找一个各方面条件都特别好的人。
条件好的男人，条件好 ...

你不是男人   我们是啊  我们可以帮你   哈哈哈

简爱

DevinDai 发表于 2019-1-5 18:42
还有这个？

没要求的人，听说才是要求最高的人。
楼主肯定是想找一个各方面条件都特别好的人。
条件好的男人，条件好的女人，他们都在单身着，然而为什么他们都不能发现彼此呢？
我有个女性朋友，我觉得她条件特别好，可是她一直单身，没机会接触异性吧？因为她工作限制。她做饭很好吃，挺有文采的，为人幽默，能赚钱，身材也好，长相也不错，我怎么觉得什么都那么好，可惜我不是男人啦。
我就是想打打字，找个角落打打字。

DevinDai

jessicazhang95 发表于 2019-1-4 09:36
楼主您应该去参加非诚勿扰新西兰专版试一试！

还有这个？

jessicazhang95

楼主您应该去参加非诚勿扰新西兰专版试一试！

简爱

DevinDai 发表于 2019-1-3 21:50
不会就是你吧

小弟，大姐我不是蕾丝，至少目前不是。

DevinDai

简爱 发表于 2019-1-2 11:19
董董已经有男票啦……

不会就是你吧

简爱

DevinDai 发表于 2019-1-1 17:12
happy new year,  也祝你早日邂逅对的那个人

董董已经有男票啦……

董董

DevinDai 发表于 2019-1-1 18:12
happy new year,  也祝你早日邂逅对的那个人

哈哈哈，蟹蟹。。。

DevinDai

董董 发表于 2019-1-1 13:50
新年快乐，祝你早日遇到她哦。。

happy new year,  也祝你早日邂逅对的那个人

董董

DevinDai 发表于 2019-1-1 08:15
恩恩  你说的对  还应该更加努力的接触更多的朋友

新年快乐，祝你早日遇到她哦。。

DevinDai

董董 发表于 2018-12-22 20:04
还是接触的人不够多！

恩恩  你说的对  还应该更加努力的接触更多的朋友

董董

DevinDai 发表于 2018-12-22 14:59
还是一会没找到

还是接触的人不够多！

DevinDai

董董 发表于 2018-9-25 23:07
支持原创，祝你幸福~这文笔，找女票分分钟的事儿。。。加油~~

还是一会没找到

DevinDai

DevinDai

A梦 发表于 2018-11-4 10:26
哈哈哈。。。。。。经历啊

好深刻啊  貌似有点故事的人

A梦

老老妖刀 发表于 2018-9-25 10:52
第一次喝醉，就在失恋时，然后爱上了酒，然后写了诗，然后看了哲学，然后研究了宗教。。。

失去后，啥都会 ...

哈哈哈。。。。。。经历啊

DevinDai

顶

DevinDai

sugarbabe 发表于 2018-10-14 18:14
最重要的是永远支持鼓励欣赏我。

虽然找到对的人的话这点是肯定会的啦，不过光这样看的话未免会觉得楼主 ...

谢谢点评  我觉得大男人主义没什么不好啊  我知道自己的性格  也知道自己想要的  我的想法就是找一位温柔的菇凉，但是这并不代表我不接受建议不能商量哈  

sugarbabe

DevinDai 发表于 2018-9-25 21:52
补充啦

申明：

最重要的是永远支持鼓励欣赏我。

虽然找到对的人的话这点是肯定会的啦，不过光这样看的话未免会觉得楼主比较大男人主义不愿接受伴侣提出来的不同的声音哦。

anyway，祝幸福

DevinDai

Just4LD 发表于 2018-9-26 10:19
白胡子

胡子版主了解下，很适合你

胡子版主，怎么联系呢

DevinDai

VE0808 发表于 2018-10-10 14:10

VE0808

DevinDai

A letter to future lovers: if you are tender, I am just mature, happiness is just around the corner

Devin / The author

some say that there are three great fortunes in our life: to meet good teachers during studying in school, to meet good masters during work, and to meet a good partner when beginning the family. Over the years, along the way, I found that good teachers and masters are easy to get, but a good companion is hard to meet! So, every day I pack up the mood, with a smile, always ready to meet and fall in love with you at first sight.

I know that God will surely care for a sincere and kind man and he is preparing a big gift for me. Because the weight is so heavy, he comes a little slower. Or maybe, I actually want to meet you late, because maybe everything was just right then, you want to marry, I dare to marry, although late but the rest of my life is you!

Honey, maybe you have a boyfriend now. I hope you don't hurt him because I know you must be a kind girl. I also hope that he will not hurt you too much, because I will feel heartache when I hear these stories in the future. I hope you have good feelings because I do not want your time to be betrayed. But I know you will break up because we are the destined couple.

Honey, maybe you are also a person now. I hope you will not be disappointed in love, nor will you dare to have love feelings. Although I know I will make you courage again, but will this process be very hard? I've already had a lot of pain in my relationship, and I hope we can relax with each other when I meet you. Honey, if you are still full of longing and expectation for love, please run faster, so that we can meet earlier because I do not want to waste a little bit of each other's happy time!

Honey, I'm doing well by myself now. Though I sometimes feel a little bitter, I'm still happy most of the time. Many people think that my nearly ten years is incredible, but as long as I know, no matter what I do, it will not be a legend without your witness! There are also many people who have heard my story and will say that you must have a lot of good female friends around you, why not have a partner? Only I know, I have been waiting for you quietly, waiting for you. I believe, dear is the same with me, not because of age, secular and other pressures in a hurry to marry, but quietly waiting for a true love, not in a hurry.

All the insistence and waiting area in order to create an opportunity which we meet each other. At that time, I think it must be the same time when I met with you. I guess then, in the faint moonlight, we would have had a long talk and share each other the story of growing up. Perhaps during the period, you will occasionally drop a few tears with grievances, please do not be afraid, I will hold you, tell you the future, I have been!

Dear, I know you are not far away, coming towards me. We are all trying to be better ourselves so that when we meet, we can recognize each other in the crowd at a glance. Honey, do you know? I often fantasize about the way we love each other：

I expect that we truly love each other because together with the loved one, as if heart power, eyes with light, a smile is all open. And I know that our love is not only the sweetness of good times but also the kindness of being brave in times of trouble. Life will not only laugh, perhaps you will still have grievances, but I will always be with you, holding you will not disappoint you!

I expect us to appreciate each other because people who appreciate each other, you are not perfect, but you have no shortcomings, you have been trying to become better. In order to go further with you, I always remind myself to rest with you and make life full of understanding, tolerance and ritual. Many say it's hard to get along with each other for whole our lives, and it should take a lot of wisdom and courage, and we never run away from each other and always encourage each other:

I expect us to be reliable with each other because with reliable people, you never have to suspect, worry and melancholy, you can live very comfortable, relaxed and natural. Because there's always one person who understands your smile and expression. There is no need for words, but there is always something to say about everything. We are partners as well as friends. From then on, each other depended.

I expect that we are all loving, because, with kind people, we not only care about ourselves, we are also caring for ones around us, concerned about this lovely world. Those places where need us in the world, we should go and see, give some warmth!

I expect us all to be a combination of idealism and realism, because of idealism, we always find joy and surprise in life in the midst of complexity and rascals; because of realism, we always fulfil the ideals on time, these will become romantic memories, written in books or diaries.

I expect that we all love sports, because together with people who love sports, even if we recognize the truth of life, we still love life. We all need to maintain good health so that we can stay with each other longer. We don't expect to travel around the world, but we always try to leave our footprints in more corners of the world as long as we live.
...

Honey, when a person meets someone he loves, he becomes a poet. When I meet you, I become a poet for you. Honey, the rest of my life is not long, I really want to be staying with you; the rest of my life is long, I just want to be staying with you. Some say that the best encounter is a long time to meet again, I do not regret not at the best moment to meet you, because after meeting you, the best time has just been starting.

Although I am ready for a long-term battle, I still look forward to your early arrival at me, so that I can use my accumulated wisdom and strength for so many years to care for you! Honey, where are you?

Honey, if you read this letter, it is you, you just gentle, I just mature, if everything just right, happiness in the corner!


自己翻译的，不知道翻译的怎么样，请大神指教

DevinDai

tomlee 发表于 2018-9-27 08:32
写得不错，祝你早日找到心上人！

谢谢鼓励，有合适的，给我介绍哟