我的无性婚姻，不知该何去何从？

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep2MAx95m20

I find the public talk on TED about sex-starved marriage is great. It says: Divorce not only ends a marriage but also dissolves a family. Marriage is about mutuality, TWO people agree on things: money, this, that, etc. however, never on sex, re quality and quantity, which is shocking. And the person who dominates is the one who have low libido (not necessarily means manipulative).

The sex drive is from the need to be loved, touched, needed. When that is rejected, the intimacy on other things disappears. Things you usually agree on becomes disagreed. You stop laughing at his jokes, You feel no need to sit together or hold hands...