-can they feed themselves? can they peel a banana? can they use the spoon?
-can they use the potty?
-can they say "hungry" "cold"hot" "tired" sleepy"?
-can they use simple words or short sentences to communicate?
-can they play games?
-can they describe or tell you about their day at preschool, such as what they did, and how he/she felt?
-Do they feel secure and confident enough to leave the main care giver and be in a new environment?