致我亲爱的前男友

christina330

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  你应该承认，宝宝和妮妮，你是偏爱妮妮的，因为妮妮乖巧懂事儿。
- _! b% L. ]; V  宝宝回到了我身边，我悉心照料他，而你算什么，你并没有按照约定，好好照顾妮妮，并且在我全然不知情的情况下在sky发帖卖狗。你有尊重过我的意愿么？当我的好朋友可乐妈看到了帖子，她很焦急，因为她怕妮妮落入SB手里，于是跟我取得了联系。
  万里之外，我本与你再无瓜葛，可是我又何尝不是劝你想想办法给妮妮留下，不要后悔。可是你说你心意已决，你养不了妮妮了。你实在没办法了。就连寄养你都不愿意。你要卖掉妮妮。
  你还跟我说 不论如何，也不会把妮妮给我，永远不可能让妮妮落入我的手里。你不是自私么？你剥夺了妮妮可以拥有幸福安定的机会，转而卖给别人。你有没有想过？就算是买狗也会抛弃，难道妮妮不是你自己当初买的么。在这个版里，被遗弃，被抛弃的有多少？
; u9 D& H: P8 a# h& X# b( t4 X9 q至此，我很不厚道的说一些私人问题，你当初开着4W NZD的跑车，还经常去SKY TOWER赌博，随随便便一笔钱，你就可以养好妮妮。可是无奈你是如此自私至极的一个人，逼走了原本属于你，幸福快乐的一切。自作孽，不可活。你自己现在自作自受，有什么资格去戳别人的脊梁骨？
) I! m" O: I0 V9 B: l7 }  请你理智一些吧，狗是你送走的。不论以后怎样，你当初已经送人了。任何人哪怕是买狗的也可以跟你保证会照顾疼爱一辈子。结局可能比现在凄惨一万倍。
; f4 G! e. [  c  {5 x' h' j/ w9 |1 l+ R/ [  狗的确是我让可乐妈要的，因为可乐妈会对妮妮疼爱百倍，她是我推心置腹的好朋友。我甚至要她trademe的账号，发了送走妮妮的帖子。帖子原文我还保留。无数洋人给可乐妈的邮箱回复邮件，她都一套不落的转给我，我熬夜再回复每一条，问每个人的情况，要求家庭图片。妮妮现在住在一户kiwi old couple 家里，院子很大，后面是off leash park 在后面是沙滩。
* r4 l* u5 q9 u* h  Y  洋人家里有一只年龄与妮妮相仿的狗叫 Cindy，也是Adopted dog，他们对于被遗弃的狗，都有很好的经验，妮妮很幸福很快乐。
我想，妮妮好，就算她不在我身边，我也会很安心，很快乐
我想请求你不要这么幼稚，这么无知，这么孩子气，这么任性。你以为全天下都得任你摆布么？你想怎样就怎样？你希望怎样就怎样？不是所有东西，后悔的来得及，可以付出代价再夺回来。不是被你抛弃，就得忍辱负重，等着你有一天回心转意，再去挽回。妮妮的命没有那么贱，不至于让你所谓不得已的时候送走，又在你改变心意以后要回来。她不是一个可以复制的玩具。是一条生命。你当初选择放弃，现在有什么资格去要求妮妮必须回来呢？
如果你执意在这儿发疯，那你就随便吧。我，可乐妈，小金鱼，根本就不会理会。你可以想怎样就怎样。你可以任意为之，不过如果你天真的认为，这样你就能找到妮妮，这样你就可以得到别人的同情怜悯，看在过去的情感，我劝你三思而后行。
  你说的那些话，无奈只代表了你的无知，先发帖说狗丢了，现在又承认自己送出去，又反悔又想要回来。
9 R) h; f7 z7 d  呵呵，我也比较无语。
  事已至此，到此为止吧，你愿意折腾谁就去折腾谁吧。别再跟我和可乐妈还有小金鱼过意不去了。伤害妮妮的不是我，阻止你发帖找狗的不是金鱼，虐待妮妮的更不是可乐妈。你需要的是自省，而不是失去理智的骚扰任何人，以及编故事骗别人帮你找狗。
- H& j2 V9 D( {! u4 A# E  不要再纠缠别人了。你有你的独木桥，我们也有我们的。希望你冷暖自知，我们各自珍重。
  你丢得起的人，我丢不起。

下面的图片是要收养妮妮洋人的邮件以及我自己的回复，还有妮妮现在在新家快乐的样子，以及妮妮新主人给我的邮件
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christina330

Hello Dayle& Peter，

Hey there, I have received the pictures already.
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When I see the lovely CIndy I do feel trust on you. And… I bet Nini will be spoiled..As a very sticky child she may sleep really really close to you if you let her jump on your bed…
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And I am so happy that she s going to have her poodle friend to be with her all the time…

Your house is just gorgeous… quiet and beautiful…. I am so sure that Nini would love there a lot…
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Dayle I just don't know how I can show my pleasure so does Nini…
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1 z( ~$ M7 N, {. {) I5 D0 j  ]If you feel confident about adopting her.. then i would like to say, you are welcome to pick her up from auckland at any time when you feel free to…
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Nini is a very good girl, and trust me she is very obedience dog…Just when she s going to a new place probably she need a week to get used to it… for the first few times I apologize if she pees or vees inside the house…. but if you show her the love and patient.. she may learn quickly…
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Nini is a Tom-boy, very playful and curious for going out…. Thank God she can live in such a place compared to Heaven….

1 Y1 J8 M5 L) g- y% yWell I just got too much to say for my little pity girl….
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& d6 K& t+ U' S( b6 Q  wDayle, you know that is kind of like passing my child to you.. Please, if you can promise me.. never let her feel the loneliness.. never let her go… never give her away to other friends or relatives…
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She is looking for a forever home….with no more shifting….
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I just wish she can be as happy as little angel Cindy, I wish and I am sure she will bring so much joy to you…..and it's good for her to leave her hopeless mum this time…

Nini is a very great ball player.. she catches it and brings it back to you…she loves playing rubber tennis ball a looooot…..
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3 T, S' u) X. N2 t! k+ E! A8 RShe loves attention and cuddles… that's way better than expensive food and toys.. she is such a nice girl…
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; H* T$ f! P- s$ Z! r1 T% a' U' @If you are happy with this answer pls contact me. and I will email you the address and my friend's phone number to you…so you can bring her back to the quiet peninsula..

, `$ p& _. ?0 H) I- @6 Z; ~* CI am out of the country at the moment…. but It's a good time for her to leave…. since it's hard to say good bye ……
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And I would also like to have your address as well… not for bothering.. or visiting… but I can post some gift to you and Cindy….
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Trust me I won't go there and interrupting her new life…..

Cheers,
Christina

christina330

妮妮新主人 回复 Hi Christina
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- \% `( J; V6 |( |3 SPlease do not worry. Cindy was 2 yrs old when we got her and it took her about two weeks to settle in. Nini will sleep on our bed with Cindy and they will love it. We will love her so much and she will be so spoilt and Cindy will have a little friend to play with. We will keep in contact with you so you know how she is getting on. She will never feel the loneliness I give you my promise to look after her as Cindy is also like our child.
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christina330

妮妮新主人回复Hi Christina.

Thanks for that. We will phone your friend to let her know what time we will be there. Thank you so much for everything and please try not to worry about Nini. We will keep in touch with you and let you know how she is getting on.

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Dear Dayle& Peter,
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" {1 e$ W# M3 ZHello Dayle, How's everything going recently?

- v) s2 N# f& Z7 z2 \6 [% J* FIt has been a week already for your new girl to join your happy lovely family… I wish she did not play as a trouble maker or being grumpy.  Hope she learns how to get along with Cindy and get used to her Family Rules.

I do hope and believe she is still a very nice girl and bring you and Cindy a lot of joy… Hope CIndy loves her new sister….

Have a Great Day! Thank you very much… Wish I can hear from you when you are free..
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Christina

christina330

新主人回复Hi Christina

* _( F5 X( e; L6 q1 |Nini is very happy.  I also wish you all the happiness in the world. It was a wonderful thing you did for her and it must have been very hard for you to let her go. I will email you photos every now and then so that you can see she is okay.
Email me anytime you like. Thanks again.
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christina330

! _- I1 _; a9 a& h6 [妮妮新主人家的环境以及他们的狗cindy

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scarletthou

什么都不说了，虽然我不认识你，没有见过你，但是我真心支持你！

GeorgeZhang

你居然能找个这样狠心还会去赌博的人做男朋友,当初你在想啥?

PhoneCareLtd

LZ的EX太...

爱很简单

什么都不多说了，大家见仁见智吧

留下足迹

不知道发生什么，先不开口，。。。坐下来再说。。。

家里有棉花糖

nini在这个洋人家里应该是很快乐的
他们家环境不错，貌似在海边，可以经常被带去散步。而且从他们家另一只贵宾能看出来他家照看的还不错

爱很简单

家里有棉花糖 发表于 2012-9-3 17:23
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keamy

希望妮妮可以一直快乐~~~LZ也加油，下次别再找个像你ex一样的男人了

DEY828

原来是这么回事啊

simonhe

啥事爱啊

小丫爱宠

懂了。。。祝福lz希望。。。。。你能找个好男人。。。。。。祝福狗狗在新的家庭里面过的开心。。。幸福呵呵

寻找简单的幸福

唉，希望狗狗在新家可以一直快乐幸福下去·····\(^o^)/~

兔の盒子

还好 遇到好人家了........

小黑two

看她在新家好快乐的样子，应该被养的蛮好的。楼主可以安心了

小七七

可爱的nini，在新家里一定会很幸福的。LZ当初做了对的决定，送给稳定的洋人家庭确实更加有保证。

道王爷

为什么要过来以后~你没选择把NINI寄回去

小灰灰

其实华人也有很疼狗狗的，我的狗狗也送回国了，现在有条件养了想收养一只可老是被晃点。可能只能买一只了

con88

虽然不是太了解你们的故事但是看到那些信和照片 真心感动了 看到妮妮那样的幸福 虽然不够华丽但是感觉的出她安定下来也融入了新家 觉得好安慰 希望这就是你们故事最完满的结局

恶魔天使

生活条件太好了呀。。。可以放心了。不过如果我是LZ我会选择不惜一切代价把它带回去！！！！

家里有棉花糖

恶魔天使 发表于 2012-9-4 00:20
生活条件太好了呀。。。可以放心了。不过如果我是LZ我会选择不惜一切代价把它带回去！！！！

不到20岁的小留学生，自己又不挣钱，运回去一只已经很仁义了
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不过看文章写得，当初是男生死活不给女生的，女生不是没考虑运回去啊

mia91

Hi Christine , I never meet you and dont know you,but my heart goes out for you and I have loads of pride and respect for you for being such a responsible owner. Nini is very very lucky to have you as her owner...and I m sure the new owner will look after her well too.
Just let go.........and live your life , dont look back look forward. Wish you all the best in future and god bless you for have such a warm loving heart for the lil animal.

恶魔天使

家里有棉花糖 发表于 2012-9-4 00:25
不到20岁的小留学生，自己又不挣钱，运回去一只已经很仁义了
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也是。。不明白男的不能养为啥就是不给女的。不是占着茅坑不拉屎么？

香草圣代

说不出的一种感动

doublejo

支持楼主啊！！