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I am sorry if the text below leads you to think that I am a man obsessed with material wealth. I am capable to love and integrate romance in my family. My students, friends and colleagues describe me as an outgoing, easy-going, forgiving, humourous and aspring man.

I am different from many men you might have seen. Many men spend much of their lives on women, but forget to spend time looking after them and giving them a good standard of living. Many men spend much of their lives on their career, but forget to spend time staying with their family. I do not fall into either of these two categories. I want to be successful in my career and in my family alike.

I read many sociology articles. I understand that women contribute more to a family than men do and women are more vulnerable to economic turbulance than men are. I also understand that a perfect family is a melting pot of money, love, romance, responsibilities, trust and communication. That's why I think that I am special and capable to start a family with a good lady, a lady who should discover my abilities to give her something that is missing in many other marriages.

I am a man who survives and struggles for his family, his parents before they pass away and his wife and child(ren) after they are brought into his life.

I am nearly 31. Sorry, I did not realise it or considered it seriously until my students asked me this question and I gave them the answer today.

I should have got married years ago as I am such a family-oriented man.

however, as i am always wanting to give my wife and my children the best i have, i did not consider the possibility seriously before.

different from many men living in nz, either younger or older than me, I have started basically from scratch. From a low-income and working parents family, I came here ladden with heavy debts, but fortunately, I paid them off despite holding a student visa in those years (which means that I could not earn more despite having such capabilities).

I am not a rich man yet, but I have sufficient money to start a business (if cnditions permit). I am a talented investor and financial controller, although I have little room to achieve my full potential. The opportunity is imminent, although it has always been remote. Somebody is born rich, while somebody rises from rags into prominence. I believe that I am the latter. I hold no doubt about it, nor do those who know me well.

My parents have always tried to rush me into a marriage and always asked me a question "when would you get married?". Never have them got my answer outright. Instead, I asked them back "if a marriage ought to persist toward the end of your life and last for decades, will it make a big difference entering it at the age of 35 or 40?"

Now when asking myself the same question, I have to say "yes, it surely will." Age holds the key to many forms of pleasure we can unlock in our lives, a healthy child, sex, a successful career, and so forth. anybody who tends to deny these facts is to deny the life formulars that have operated for thousands of years and possibly date back to the founding of the first human family on this planet.

I am an ordinary-looking guy, medium-height, knowledgeable, adventuresome but prudent. I dropped out of the school around four years ago because of financial hardships, but this deprivation does not compromise my academic competence and specialised knowledge. I have helped hundreds of students finish their bachelor or master degrees in NZ and other countries. Once I get PR(damn it), my effort to get multiple qualifications is basically unstoppable. Life to me is a journy that is full of challenges and surprises. I welcome both. A classic example is that I got my book published, although I am an obscure writer without any striking academic background. I am glad that I am a miracle creator rather than an opportunitist. I have started another book, hopefully another milestone on my path to success.

Enough about me but little about the girl that I think fits me. I don't expect to meet a girl as knowledgeable as me, but she is preferrably a keen learner. A girl without strong quest for knowledge is a homely girl that brings no fresh air in a marriage, which is doomed to become a graveyard. Nor do i expect to see a girl as intelligent as me, but at least, she is capable to communicate with me, read my mind and understand my vision. A marriage can by no means succeed if the couple does not share the same language. I am a literature lover and movie-goer. My humble breeding does not deprive me of appreciating art, a penchant that is found unique among humans only and distinguishes us from other species.

She should be a non-smoker and physically normal and healthy. I am a robust adherent of genetics. A smoker, an obesity sufferer or a girl that does not follow a healthy lifestyle is a self-destructing individual, bring nothing to the world but a baby with birth defects. I am interested in a healthy family. I am ready to expend all my energy and talent I have in exchange for it.

I put them all in English, because it is a good test of literacy and language proficiency. I want a well-educated child. marrying a well-educated mother is exactly the first step toward this objective.

Pour all your scorn right here if you take me as a geek but let me know via QQ 26160562 if you are interested in me and ready for a healthy family and a spotless marriage.

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