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[生活] Bad parenting is not the reason for child poverty [复制链接]

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发表于 2016-1-5 12:47:29 |只看该作者 |正序浏览 微信分享
http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/75606032/bad-parenting-is-not-the-reason-for-child-poverty

Feeding children breakfast in schools does not get to the root of the problem of poverty - families in need and under stress.
ANDY JACKSON/FAIRFAX NZ

OPINION: The single most effective action we can take to improve the lives of children in poverty is to give parents money, no questions asked. In two previous articles, I've shown that when parents in poverty are given more money, they use it to better the lives of their children.

I suspect that many in New Zealand will express both shock and total disbelief that the evidence could possibly support this conclusion. At the heart of this shock is the common belief that children in poverty suffer because of bad parents, not the lack of money.

In part we believe this myth because our focus on "child" poverty has separated in the public's mind these children from their families. The children are innocent and need our help therefore we glibly conclude that the parents are "guilty": guilty of ignorance and abandonment of their parental responsibilities. New Zealanders love to perpetuate the image of the "mad, bad, poor parent", but it is a lazy, inaccurate and dangerous story to tell because it has led us to put our best efforts into the least-efficient solutions.

We want to help the children but we don't want to help their parents. We see it as their fault. So we don't. Instead we continue to push solo parents into work even though it does no good for the kids unless both the work and childcare are of a decent quality. We feed children in schools, but a couple of Weetbix won't fix their problems. We talk about providing minimum standards for children in housing, but why are families in poverty not able to afford decent accommodation for their children? We are treating the symptoms (children doing badly) and never the cause (family poverty) because we do not trust parents in poverty to do the best for their children.

We need to deal with what is really at the heart of poor outcomes for children in poverty: lack of resources in a family and a life filled with stress.

In the first article of this series, I looked at the "The Great Smoky Mountains Study", where some families in poverty received a regular cash grant, and the children in those families prospered in the long term.

The families who were moved out of poverty with the regular payments displayed fewer stress-related behaviours. They had fewer arrests, had more quality time with their children, improved their parenting behaviours, while the children themselves were happier, stayed in school longer, and committed less crime, compared with poor families in Smoky Mountains who did not receive the payments.

Stress from poverty even impacts the developing brains and bodies of children  - an impact that lasts a lifetime. This can occur if children personally face ongoing stress or if they experience a lack of adult interaction in key development phases. An Otago University study followed a large group of Dunedin children since their birth in the 1970s and found that growing up in poverty increases the chance of heart disease in life. Importantly, even if the child became wealthy as an adult this risk didn't disappear – showing the permanent physical impact of poverty-related stress.

Families in poverty have less to spend on both the basics and the enriching experiences children need to thrive. There is some evidence that an inability to purchase goods and experiences also leads to poor outcomes for children.

In reality, stress and limited resources interact with each other to determine children's well-being. Take learning to read, for example. A family who can't afford to buy books for children may also have less time, ability and energy to read to their child. We know that being read to is crucial for later learning, so this problem creates a gulf in skills between the haves and have-nots that no school can hope to bridge.

What the evidence tells us is that children in poverty do poorly not because they have irresponsible parents, but because they live in families under stress. Give them money to release the pressure valve and families and children do a whole lot better. It is not 100 per cent effective of course, but it gets closer than anything else we have tried.

First, we need to remove the financial stress then we deal with what is left.

Jess Berentson-Shaw is a science researcher at the Morgan Foundation. This is the final article in a series of three on family poverty.

- The Dominion Post
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发表于 2016-1-8 08:09:01 |只看该作者 微信分享
主要原因是又懒又笨又封闭。
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发表于 2016-1-8 05:36:15 |只看该作者 微信分享
Religion is the reason.

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发表于 2016-1-7 21:33:09 |只看该作者 微信分享
人类正在高速退化。越高素质的越不愿意生孩子,越低素质的越生一大群。

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发表于 2016-1-6 12:33:19 |只看该作者 微信分享
NewLynnHse 发表于 2016-1-5 14:04
强制绝育应该比较有效,或者是学中国的独生子女政策

西方社会和印度哪里会强制绝育?哪里会用强硬苛克的政策去管生育?这是希特勒才会这样做
人们经常是不讲道理的、没有逻辑的和以自我为中心的。不管怎样,你要原谅他们。即使你是友善的,人们可能还是会说你自私和动机不良。不管怎样,你还是要友善。

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发表于 2016-1-5 13:04:33 |只看该作者 微信分享
强制绝育应该比较有效,或者是学中国的独生子女政策
Disclaimer: 本老鼠发的帖子内容都是在我的理解范围内的。没有误导网友的意思。如果是读者自己误解,不是本老鼠的责任。
我们应该鄙视他们,因为他们脑残
懂的人自然会懂,不懂的永远不会懂

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