Looking for a nice (girl) friend ;)

justsomeone1210

Hi,

I'm from hk, 22 yrs old, been in nz for 11 yrs, lives on the shore but study at au (final 1.5 yr), I speak perfect hk cantonese and tw mandarin but better with british english.

My hobbies are classical music/pop chinese songs, reading novels, poems, watching movies and basically anything quiet!

Dont drink dont smoke dont go out late (in fact dont go out much near exam time).

I'm looking for a nice friend who I can talk to most of the time and hang out with, preferably someone in au or aut ;) Don't have to be pretty just have to be nice :)

Not going to post up photo or else lots of people will know who I am xD dont think this is a cheap way to get to know others as Im always open to opportunities ;D

Email me: ycha223@gmail.com

Mgcm

haha.... like you as you can speak good english and cantonese!
hard to meet someone like you!
unfortunately, you are christian.

justsomeone1210

12# 1q2a

haha

i better stop before the whole world gets angry ;)
nice meeting u guys

1q2a

you sound so much like my friend in my faculty, u sure you're not her

no

justsomeone1210

10# 1q2a

Bit of misunderstanding there, I did not say Im agianst those who see relationships like shallow water but just I want someone whos not like that for now. I had been that kind of person and I regreted it, I just want a very simple and long lasting relationship for now and  thats nothing wrong with it. No offense meant to those who think differently and I apologise if that sounded offensive - everyone chooses their own life everyone has their choice can't say whos right whos wrong.

Also I don't just go for only christian girls, as long as she is not anti-christian, but yea you're right, someone who holds the similar views about things (aren't this something we all want?)

And who makes u think im inconsistent? I know many of my bros and sis would not agree with what im doing now - going to speed dating clubs dating forums such as this one but i just dont see the problem with it. Im a very open person I believe God gives us the other half but if one sits there at home 24 hours 7 he'll never get to meet anyone. It's not like your Mr Right will fall from the sky you see what I mean?

Again apologise to all those here for always typing in english...I do not really know how to type chinese (apart from using google translation)...

Just my views open to objections ;)
ps. you sound so much like my friend in my faculty, u sure you're not her?

1q2a

9# justsomeone1210


u sound interesting (and very opinionated/judgmental).

im a christian too but i respectfully disagree with a lot of the things that ur doing here.

first, a person who's gone for ONS, "[sees] relationships like shallow water" etc is NOT necessary bad. you might even find GOOD girls amongst those who've been there done that. after all Jesus had no problem hanging out with prostitutes. so why ur attitude against them (women who've made mistakes in the past)? u think ur better?

secondly, i'd recommend u say it UPFRONT that you're looking for someone who's also a christian, i.e. a person with the same world views. but instead, in effect you're saying: im open to ALL opportunities but no sex before marriage pls. why so hypercritial? if u have high standards, if u hold romantic relationships in such high regard then carry ur principles all the way through. be consistent! otherwise you might find urself very disappointed.

the LORD provides. say it mean it and live it. in other words, first, pray about it.

good luck

justsomeone1210

6# 1q2a

Yep
theres much more to a relationship than the physical, e.g. communication and sharing
got sick of those who saw relationships like shallow water, but good girls are still out there, i believe ;)

kenyon

GO CHRISTIAN HAHA,i'm not a good christian haha, shame shame~~十扑~~~

1q2a

6# justsomeone1210


christian?

justsomeone1210

whoa, very intense. good on u if it's true
1q2a 发表于 2011-1-24 01:03

im serious, as it would go against my religion, its difficult to find someone who is willing to agree to that, may as well lay down the rule beforehand ;)

1q2a

if we happened to be together no sex before marriage

whoa, very intense. good on u if it's true

zli091

;funk; ;funk; ;funk; 2# justsomeone1210
;funk;

justsomeone1210

Remark:
* No playing around, no one night stand and if we happened to be together no sex before marriage. So dont email if you're dont agree to the rules ;)