真是他妈的

love_3_month

NewLynnHse 发表于 2014-7-30 06:12
你认为“募捐”是属于行善？

我觉得没有根据就去怀疑甚至指责死者家属是要发死人财是属于行恶

捐款是行善，出主意是行善，只要能帮人让人感到温暖就是行善了

love_3_month

一件事情，可能对人有帮助，就做。可能对人有伤害，就不做。

这些质疑的人，他们可以背后去讨论，但是这么拿出来网上讨论，要事主出来解释，甚至讽刺，除了表现自己智商的优越感，有没有想过，可能自己是错的，可能对死者家属造成伤害？

love_3_month 发表于 2014-7-30 08:22
一件事情，可能对人有帮助，就做。可能对人有伤害，就不做。

这些质疑的人，他们可以背后去讨论，但是这 ...

为什么不可以发出不同的声音呢。如果那些收入微薄的单亲妈妈，那些不富裕的留学生捐款前知道这家人是投资移民来的，家里还有一点生意。他们会捐吗？
你们所有在这叫嚷质疑的人是没人情的人，如果你在故事的开始就知道这是一个投资移民家庭，家里有生意，知道是这种情况你会捐吗？为什么不考虑他们善良的人受到的伤害？就不能说了吗？
我自己一开始是对她充满了同情，第一时间短信给她说可以帮他带孩子。也准备捐款。100快对我来说不会影响到我的生活，却可以帮助到真正需要的人。可是知道她是投资移民，家里有生意，我对她的看法改变了，我庆幸还没将钱捐出去。我比她的生活都不如，就不去充大头了。
事情的本身是很让人同情的。可是一步步的发展却变质了。
现在将所有的责任推到义工那，说是义工的主意。义工要你去杀人你会去吗？义工叫你收钱你就会了。
人性的贪婪！！无耻！！

love_3_month

25/07
LZ posted that her husband just passed away in the hospital. She was devastated. She didn't know what to do (to protect his body/evidence, to stay with him, to tell the baby, everything) so just want to get help/ idea from skykiwi.
(many ppl supported her. some wanted to donate money)

26/07
LZ responded. Thanked all ppl that supported her. No mention of money.
(many ppl supported her. some wanted to donate money)

27/07
no Post from LZ
(many ppl supported her. some wanted to donate money)

28/07
LZ posted a new bank account under the baby's name. She responded to ppl who said they would like to donate about the account.
(Later that day, some ppl started to google her previous post and her mobile phone. They questioned a lot, including why she wants donation as (they believe) she owns couple of companies, cars and houses. Some ppl said they can't fee the sadness from LZ, just money. Some other ppl disagreed. )

29/07
(One person called LZ to question her. LZ told her all the answers)
LZ posted about the call and removed the bank account.

30/07
LZ explained the whole thing again. She originally did not think of donation, but many ppl suggested so, and one community worker told her it is ok. So she did it.

That is why she opened an account in the baby's name as she hoped this can prove she won't use the money for other purpose. (actually this won't prove anything, and some ppl now question: if you were really sad, how could you spend some time in the bank opening the account???)

WELL above is what I can see from the posts.

You can choose to believe 3 different versions of the story.

1. LZ wanted to collect money from other ppl from beginning (i.e. 25/07). She did all of these on purpose, this is entirely cheating.

2. LZ did not want to collect money at first (25/07). However, when she saw the chance of getting "free money", she grabbed it. She is not very honest.

3. LZ never thought of cheating other ppl. Everything she told is true. She just trusted other ppl and thought other ppl will trust her. She is too naive.

Ant_Worker

真不知道那些经常活跃在论坛的自以为是的老娘们的同情心何在. 真是他妈的, 人家丈夫刚去世一个星期, 都不让人家消停.