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作者: amykaio 时间: 2018-12-11 11:47:48 标题: Struggle

at work, can't type Chinese, really can't make a decision, any opinion welcome~

me and my husband got a day job each, plus, we did commerical cleaning at night and it has been 5 months, good for saving but not enough to make us rich. Trying hard to save up to buy a house.

Struggling is because I don't see my 2 girls enough, 3 and 4 years old.
During weekdays, only 3 hours the most.
During weekend, take away the rest time, still not much.

If we stopped now, we are only half way of 10% deposit and it's gona take a long time to save from day job incomes only.
If we carried on for another 1.5 years, we will be able to make it, just.

1.5 years may not sound a lot, but looking at them playing, being funny and cute, I just can't help wonder if I really have to give up the precious time for a house. Can't the house wait?

I just can't decide......

作者: reyyerne 时间: 2018-12-11 12:02:20

suffer now enjoy later. There is a trade off in almost everything you do, you get one thing and lose others. Guess what you need to do is to consider what is more important to you.

作者: NewLynnHse 时间: 2018-12-11 12:32:49

you need to pack up and go back to China

作者: amykaio 时间: 2018-12-11 12:58:36

NewLynnHse 发表于 2018-12-11 13:32
you need to pack up and go back to China

why????????????

作者: anzac_corp 时间: 2018-12-11 13:00:08

There are always houses in the market. Buy later, spend time with kids now.

作者: NewLynnHse 时间: 2018-12-11 13:05:35

amykaio 发表于 2018-12-11 12:58
why????????????

NZ is just not suitable for you and your family

作者: 北岛黑蜻蜓 时间: 2018-12-11 13:31:41

你的房子多少钱，10%应该不难存吧

除非你的老公是大手大脚花钱的白人

作者: :TicklyRain: 时间: 2018-12-11 13:48:28

沙发说的多。生活就是取舍，不可能事事圆满。选择得看两件事在你心里的分量。你们买房的budget多少？要买哪个区什么样多大的房子？

作者: 简爱 时间: 2018-12-12 03:14:53

离开奥克兰，去小地方做生意，赚钱多，存钱快，还有很多时间陪孩子。存够钱了，在奥克兰买房子，搬回奥克兰，很多华人这样子做

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